Mountain Moving Methods

How many huge projects do you have on your list that you move week to week, month to month, never getting started? I have a bit of experience in this area (for better or worse). I have invented an assessment, written a book, and started a career coaching Academy. Completing a task that is complex and time-consuming can be daunting.

 

Here are some ways I get out of my own way and get big stuff done:

 

Step One: Clear the Deck

It’s difficult to focus on big stuff when you have a messy desk and lots of unfinished business. I allow myself the time to cross the smaller items off my list before I tackle the bigger ones. You might interpret this as a form of procrastination, but, for me, it gives me a clear launching pad, reduces my anxiety, and sets the stage for productivity.

 

Step Two: Focus on the Process, Not the Product

The product is the fully actualized achievement of whatever you are trying to accomplish. Examples might include eliminating all your credit debt or starting a new business. You envision all the work, habit-changing, and sacrifice needed to succeed. The enormity of the task stops you in your tracks.

 

The process, on the other hand, is the method you plan to employ to get you to your goal. For example, paying a specific amount on your credit debt each month or writing a business plan. As you make progress, you add additional strategies to your process.

 

Step Three: Avoid Seeing the Outcome as Overly Special or Unattainable

When I want to accomplish something big, I can find myself idealizing the achievement. The best example was writing a book. It seemed like something other people did. I felt small in the shadow of my book-writing dream.

 

Perhaps you do the same thing. You reflect on what you want to change or accomplish and doubt that you can do it. Worse, you might even think you don’t have the right stuff, are not good enough.

 

Usually, the answer for me is a process of normalizing the dream. I notice that lots of people have been able to do what I want to do. I remind myself the outcome is worth it and aligned with my purpose. And, then I can break it down into a process and start making progress.

 

I leave you with a quote that has always inspired me:

“You are never given a dream without also being given the power to make it true. You may have to work for it, however.”

― Richard Bach

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